Monday, March 23, 2009

A simple question

Do you want a personal relationship with someone who loves you to death?

One of the simplest yet most powerful questions you can ask. Think about it for a while. Do you?

5 comments:

  1. 当你再问这问题时,你是否已经心里有数了呢?
    其实在每一段感情世界里,都有很多不一定的规律,这是看我们怎么去造化了...
    有感觉才会有开始嘛,如果没感觉的话,他们应该会很难融入你的世界里,对吗?
    人的思绪是复杂而凌乱的,所以这只能靠自问,才可以寻找到解答。
    好好把握你所能擁有的,很多東西失去了,就再也追不回了。
    *找一個懂你的人,也期許自己做一個懂別人的人。
    能被喜欢的人喜欢,是一种奇迹,上帝将它命为-恋爱
    可能他/她不是100分,可能他/她不能陪你走到尽头,但那又何妨不管是爱或是需要,这将是自己最清楚的。不要被文字给框住自己,就此裹足。
    喜欢,就伸出手让对方知道。把握現在是很重要的,別让幸福溜走哦!
    但...我还是觉得你应该好好专注在你的学业上吧!
    其它的...就看你自己咯,嘻:p

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  2. 人的愛是很有限的
    其實我希望看這問題的人發現這點

    想想看...
    如果愛可以沒有條件,沒有時間限制,沒有瑕疵... 妳會想要這樣的愛嗎?
    妳說戀愛是奇蹟,大概吧
    但完美的愛不就是變成不可能嗎?
    如果我跟妳說有一種完美的愛妳會要嗎?
    我能愛因為神先愛我
    祂也愛妳,而且只要肯打開心胸讓祂進來,去認識祂,妳就能感受到這份愛,這份無條件的愛
    說不定這就是妳我最需要的,比戀愛還美妙的東西

    哇,這段話好不符合我的style...但這是我真心相信的

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  3. It's kind of an intimidating question if you really step back (even from our Christianity) and consider it. If I was told that there was some dude (or dudette) whom I've never met who loved me to death, I would be kind of afraid to meet him or approach him.

    I know that part of Christ's work was to get rid of such barriers to us coming to God, but on the other hand, maybe we take such a question too lightly when we simply say "yes!" and talk about Jesus like he's a completely non-intimidating Jewish guy, rather than the God of the universe.

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  4. 我...相信大家都想拥有一份沒有條件,沒有限制,沒有瑕疵的爱吧!
    嗯...实际上,好像没有完美的爱,唯有互相扶持及坚定的爱而已也!(我是说人,而不是神)

    感情其实是一种很奥妙的东西,就如你所说的.人的愛是很有限的.就像随风而来,又随风而去了。这应该是说‘感觉’吧!

    感觉...我的思想越来越来混乱了,哈!

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  5. @Jeffrey, I too feel the intensity of this question. I hardly ever use this question but it only recently hit me just how much the response to this question matters. And like you said, I also started thinking about how people respond to it...

    If one of my friends loved me like that (and had the capacity to love like that), I would say yes without hesitation. You hit the key point when you said "whom I've never met". Already having a base knowledge and interaction with the person is crucial for anyone to answer this simple question. No wonder it takes so many gospel attempts for people to believe, and rightly so.

    For the people that take this question lightly... let's see how God will change them.

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